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Having trouble convincing Mom to accept help? Here are some tips:

  • Approach the subject firmly, with tenderness and compassion. Imagine yourself in her shoes. She might be resistant because she is afraid of losing control of her life.
  • Be sure to include her in the decision-making process.
  • Be positive and patient. Allow her time to process the idea and accept her limitations. This will make her more comfortable.
  • Involve others as necessary — a friend, clergy, etc.
  • Suggest that she just try the service, letting her know that ultimately the decision to continue is hers.
  • Last but not least, accept your mother’s right to reject your suggestion. A competent adult has the right to make poor decisions. Even if you do not agree and find the rejection frustrating, ultimately the choice should be hers.
 
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Sheltering Arms Senior Services
3838 Aberdeen Way, Houston, Texas 77025
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